We love hearing from new moms! This routine comes from a reader in Canada who has this whole clean skincare thing down to an art. She has even managed to get her husband hooked on one of our favorite masks. Impressive!
City: Peterborough, ON, Canada
Weather: It was cool and overcast over the last week, but summer has graced us with a comeback so I’m scrambling to pull back out some mild weather outfits to get me through these last blessed days of warmth. Looks like I get one more swim in the lake before winter.
Hair: Long, brown/blonde (I’ve been growing out my hair for two years, so it’s naturally ombre. Another few months and there will be no semblance of the blonde I used to be).
Skin: Sensitive with a normal consistency (not terribly dry, not terribly oily).
Star: Emma Watson
I’m currently on maternity, which means my morning skin care regiment has the pleasure of being an all-day event if I want it to. I wake up at 6:00 when my husband gets up to go to work, and make myself a green smoothie (lemon, greens, flax seeds and psyllium husk). I’ve done this every day for the last 3 years, so that is one thing that has stayed consistent. I wash my hair 1 or 2 times a week, when my mom can sit in and watch the baby, so I usually take my hair out of it’s high-bun and fluff it with a little Lulu Organics dry shampoo (I’ve tried making my own dry shampoo a few times, and even opted for straight up baby powder, but nothing comes close to Lulu). I use Lanvalin deodorant every other day (it’s supposed to last 72 hours, but I take my dog out for a good run at least 5x a week so 48 seems to be the limit). I sometimes mix it up with Crawford Street Lemon Deodorant cream which works well for me as well.
For my face, I use May Lindstrom’s Honey Mud with warm water, followed by splashing my skin with cool water. The Honey mud is expensive, but seems to keep my skin moisturized all day. If I’ve seen any flare ups coming the night before, I’m usually wiping off May Lindstrom’s Problem Solver Mask which I dab on the spots to heal overnight. The stuff is incredible (I use it as a mask once a week — even my husband is addicted to it.) I follow with a spritz of Graydon Face Food Toner which is fresh and light and locks in the Honey mud moisture in really well (Graydon is a local luxe skincare company that I can’t rave enough about. I also use it as soon as I get in from my runs to keep the sweat at bay.) Then I follow with Morning Glory Serum from One Love Organics mixed with a drop or two of Pai Rosehip Seed Oil. I oil cleanse at night with the oil, so it feels good to keep it going in the morning as well. The Morning Glory Serum plumps up my skin and gives it a nice glow, even through my makeup.
I use Suntegrity’s Tinted Sunscreen and follow with Iilia Beauty’s Finishing Powder and another spritz of Graydon Face Food Toner to lock it in. I’m obsessed with the Kjaer Weis Highlighter for my cheeks and nose, along with Eminence Organics Pressed powder bronzer to highlight my cheek bones. I use an eyelash curler (heated with a lighter) and no mascara is necessary. When it comes to makeup, I like to keep it minimal. A swipe of Studio 78’s “Let’s get married” Liquid Lipstick in “Rose” and I’m ready to go for the day.
I’m an avid dry brush user. During my pregnancy I dry brushed every day, followed by Pai’s Pumpkin Seed Stretch Mark System and can happily vouch that I didn’t get a single stretch mark from my first pregnancy. Now I use Extra Virgin coconut oil daily after brushing.
The rest of my morning is a flurry of feedings, diaper changes and getting my hubby out the door — and to be honest, I rarely leave the house. But this routine is what makes me feel refreshed and alive.
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We love how this mom-to-be is caring for herself with a mix of gorgeous clean products and lovely ingredients you can pull straight out of the kitchen cupboard. Anna’s routine is an inspiration for its simplicity, and her thoughtful preparations have us feeling vicarious anticipation for her little one to arrive. So sweet!
City: Lynchburg, VA
Current Weather: Late summer humidity still hanging in the air.
Skin: Fair and dry.
Hair: Growing out chemically dyed blonde
Favorite Star From the Past: Not from the past but I love Drew Barrymore’s spirit.
I am well into my third trimester expecting a little girl! Although my routine has been relatively clean prior to the pregnancy this transitional time has challenged my internal and external beauty routines even further. My hope is that my daughter will love herself for who she is inside and out and that starts with my example!
During this pregnancy I’ve tried to simplify my beauty routine and view it from the inside out. I kick start my day with oil pulling and dry brushing. While I’m still oil pulling I pour myself a huge glass of warm lemon water and start fixing breakfast. Our diet is focused on seasonal whole foods that are organically and locally grown. We subscribe to a CSA share that delivers right to our apartment door on a weekly basis and on Saturdays my husband and I walk to the farmers market together to fill in the gaps from our CSA share. I feel beautiful and energized when I am eating right and staying hydrated. My biggest beauty splurge has been a water filter for our city water. (We went with a Berkey.) I try to drink at least a gallon a day starting with warm lemon water. If I start my day this way my whole day feels more organized and purposed. It already seems like a lot but all of this takes 10-15 min tops!
I moisturize my face and growing belly in the morning with whatever oil strikes my fancy (macadamia nut oil is my favorite!) If I am feeling really indulgent I will use Lotus Wei Infinite Love Serum on my face and body. What ever oil I have left over on my hands is then distributed to the ends of my hair. My perfume is also Infinite Love by Lotus Wei. I don’t normally use a deodorant but if I am going to be in an extra sweaty situation Soapwalla does the trick! My makeup routine is my favorite clean beauty switch because it is so simple and I still feel like myself after! Three products and two min. and I am done! I use RMS un-coverup in 11 under my eyes and around my nose for redness (I am still in the same pot after about a year and still have more to use! My color is closer to 00 but RMS didn’t carry that shade when I purchased. Even though 11 is a little dark for me it blends really well and it is not a noticeable difference when it is all blended. Can’t wait to repurchase though!) I follow with RMS living luminizer down the center of my face and RMS lipshine in Bloom on my lips and cheeks. I don’t normally use mascara but when I do I like the RMS lengthening mascara.
During the day I carry around Bach’s Rescue Remedy Pastilles and have some stocked away in the diaper bag already! If I had some extra dough I would repurchase Lotus Wei’s Joy Juice Elixir — it is an AWESOME pick me up!
My night routine is much simpler — I only wash my hair once a week with either clay/ACV or egg whites so in the evening I will just hop in the shower or bath with a shower cap and use Dr. Bronners to wash off the day. (My husband likes the Peppermint and I like the Rose and we have the unscented for baby.) I brush in the evening with Toms of Maine Fluoride Free toothpaste but I am not fully satisfied with their ingredient list. Any suggestions for a cleaner toothpaste? I moisturize with a heavy organic shea butter for my face and body (remember I said I have dry skin!) and head towards bed where I mist with Lotus Wei Quiet Mind (which is my husbands favorite scent!).
Growing out my chemically blonde hair has been a bummer but I have been tinting the length of my hair with black walnut powder from Mountain Rose Herbs to help darken the light blonde with success! I really wanted to avoid any red tones as I have a very light ash brown naturally and the Black Walnut tint has been wonderful. This is a once a month treatment as the tint fades over time.
I am also planning on incorporating many of the items from my everyday routine into my (prayerfully) natural hospital birth. These items include: coconut oil (for massage, stretching, and for baby), camomile tea with Bach’s Rescue Remedy drops, and Lotus Wei Quiet mind spray.
Thanks for reading and for the great community here at NMDL! I am always learning and inspired by each one of you.
Thank you for sharing Anna! Wishing you and your new bundle health and happiness!
Say hello to Lydia and her lovely routine. Yesterday we talked about self-care rituals, and we see some great examples of that here. Magic herbal elixirs? Yes please!
City: Brooklyn, NY
Current Weather: Summer. Weirdly mild and pleasant!
Skin: Fair, sensitive. Way less temperamental since going clean!
Hair: Dark, thick, wavy, growing out a short pixie cut.
Favorite Star From the Past: Isabella Rosselini
I am a dance artist and writer with a wonderful day job supporting artists in New York. Some days I feel like I’ve cracked the artist-survival code and some days I want to hide under the bed. All days I am thankful for having found a non-toxic, gentle, pleasurable self-care routine, thanks in large part to the wonderful ladies of (and contributors to) NMDL!
In The Shower…
I am a dedicated lifelong night shower-er. I like going to bed clean and waking up still clean! I oil-cleanse nightly with No Evil, which is pure olive squalene, aka magic oil. It really sinks in and nourishes without ever feeling greasy. I rub it onto a dry, dirty face, leave it on while in the shower to let it sink in / protect my face from shampoo residue, then wipe it off with a warm washcloth. Getting used to cleansing without surfectants was an adjustment, but I’ve finally learned to trust that oil-cleansed skin is as clean as my skin needs to be! I shampoo about twice a week with Avalon Organics Tea Tree Shampoo and just rinse on the in-between days; this keeps my dry scalp happy and un-flaky. As body wash I use exclusively Dr. Bronners Shikakai soap in lavender. It is just the greatest daily non-drying cleanser I have found and can also be used as hand soap and shampoo in a pinch or while traveling! I love a good multitasker.
Outside the shower…
Night, continued: Every few days I follow up the oil cleansing with Sow Your Wild Oats, a powdered oats/milk cleanser, which dissolves as it gently removes dead skin. Sometimes I mix the powdered cleanser with honey and leave it on for awhile for extra antibacterial/humectant power. About once a week (on a different day) I’ll moisten a powdered charcoal/clay mixture, add one drop of essential oil (lavender or geranium) and rub it onto areas prone to inflammation as a mask (keeping it away from more delicate cheek, nose, temple areas). I moisturize with Nourish & Replenish oil (a blend of olive squalene, grapeseed, rosehips, jojoba, sesame, neem, carrot seed oils) mixed with spritzes of Holy Cow Mineral Mist which is holy basil-infused and full of dissolved minerals which can be absorbed through the skin, so it’s skincare+supplement!
I started working with herbalist Emma Graves (of Brooklyn Herborium) in the winter after experiencing some weird patchy rashy-ness, and all of my face stuff comes from her line Between You and the Moon. The things she makes are simple, carefully sourced, and lovingly handmade, but even more than beautiful products she has passed on invaluable knowledge of body systems, ancient and traditional healing methods, and herbal wisdom; she taught me to use few products (daily cleansing oil, moisturizing oil, and mist + occasional exfoliator and mask) and to be patient and consistent. She also gently broke the news to me that my strict and years-long veganism was not right for my constitution, and after reluctantly adding (ethically sourced) eggs, butter, and full-fat yogurt to my diet and committing to regular acupuncture appointments my health (and rashy-ness) experienced a serious transformation. My mindset about food and lifestyle became much more holistic and my understanding of body / energy systems deepened considerably. I cannot speak highly enough of herbalism and acupuncture for healing!
Back to the fun stuff:
I brush my teeth with Tom’s Botanically Bright toothpaste which is SLS and fluoride free (with all of the conflicting information I’m not sure how to feel about fluoride; does anyone have any knowledge to share?). If I’ve shampooed I’ll run a few drops of the same squalene through my hair and onto my scalp (in lieu of in-shower conditioning), and if I haven’t shampooed I’ll do absolutely nothing to my hair before crawling into bed. My nighttime routine takes about 7-10 minutes, tops.
In the morning, I simply splash my face and hair with water, moisturize again with the oil blend+mist, slick on some Tom’s Long Lasting Wild Lavender Deodorant (the only kind I’ve found that works and doesn’t irritate!), stick some combo of bobby pins into my growing-out hair to de-cockatoo it, and make breakfast. I am very attached to my sliced green apple + oatmeal routine, and make a hot lemon + tumeric + ginger concoction and a cup of green tea to go with it. I eat and sip while reading and listing to NPR.
Nightly, I’ll drink a glass of Red Clover infusion and a glass of Red Raspberry / Nettle infusion, which my boyfriend calls “magic elixirs” — I tend to agree. Delicious and easy-to-absorb minerals!
I am not really a makeup lady… I have very prominent eyes and lips and dark brows and lashes, and have never felt like my face takes makeup particularly well, so I stick with what works for me. Alima Pure Satin Matte Mineral Foundation in Beige 2 applied just on uneven spots with an Ecotools Airbrush Concealer Brush, combed-up brows, and a sheer layer of Fresh Sugar Balm in Cherry on lips and cheeks is my daily go-to. Occasionally I’ll go with Josie Maran Color Stick in Spice instead, or Alima Pure Mascara in Black, but these days are rare. I’ve never been particularly drawn to “statement” makeup versus makeup used just to feel more polished, but as I’ve moved from early to mid-twenties have started to understand the appeal of blush for looking awake.
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You may recognize Carol from the NMDL community. Her sweet and positive vibe in the comments section reminds us why we love doing what we do. Carol has some serious green beauty wisdom to share, so grab a cup of herbal tea and settle in for a lovely routine.
City: Indian Wells, CA
Current weather: Sunny & dry, dry, dry! Around 110 degrees daily with a/c running 24/7 (summer in the desert!)
Skin: Dry, Aging, Sensitive
Hair: Dry, Wavy/Curly, Shoulder-Length, Color my grey (with as chemical-free color as I can find)
Favorite Star From The Past: tie between Leslie Caron & Jaclyn Smith during her “Charlie’s Angels” era
How I start each day…
I start each day with equal measures of love & hydration. The love part is a generous misting of Lotus Wei Infinite Love Mist as soon as my eyes open, a big hug from my lovely daughter who runs in to greet me each morning, followed by giving our sweet golden retriever his morning Ark Natural dog treat — he gets SO excited about it (not realizing it’s really to clean his teeth) that it melts my heart, and I make my dear husband a big mug of coffee. The hydration part is brewing 2 cups of Organic India Tulsi Tea. (I have those big over-sized Fiestaware mugs in assorted cheerful colors to wake up to). I rotate between their Tulsi Vanilla (my favorite one) or Tulsi Cinnamon Rose or Tulsi Guta Kola and I make sure to let it seep for at least 10 minutes, all of which I learned from the lovely Susannah on NMDL. I also add 5 drops of Lotus Wei Joy Juice Elixer to my morning tea to help with being cheerful.
The hydration continues while I’m waiting for my Tulsi tea to brew, I hold a warm washcloth to my face and then follow with a generous mist of Kari Gran Hydrating Tonic in the rose scent (it’s so fresh, like sticking my face into a bouquet of fresh-cut roses from the garden) and I follow that with several pumps of her ah-mazing Serum which has this luscious ylang-ylang scent. I also hydrate my lips with Kari Gran cinnamon lip whip (shout out to Alexandra for mentioning this on NMDL — that’s how I discovered it). Back to the love part, I also swish my mouth with Tom’s of Maine natural mouth-wash and follow with a spritz of Lotus Wei Infinite Love perfume on my hair, wrists, and my heart (as Katie from Lotus Wei suggests) so that I smell nice for my family as we are preparing breakfast. While I drink my tea, I sit quietly for 20 minutes or so and read my favorite blogs, starting with NMDL.
After tea is finished, we always make healthy breakfast smoothies — sometimes green smoothies (lots of coconut water, baby spinach, frozen berries) and sometimes tropical (unsweetened coconut milk, fresh pineapple chunks, frozen banana, splash of orange juice). If anyone is being cranky, I keep a bottle of Lotus Wei Joy Juice Mist on the kitchen counter and mist it around to keep us cheerful (neither myself or my daughter are morning folk). I then fill a large glass with half Zico coconut water and half Perrier water. I find the straight coconut water a little hard to take, but I also desperately need the hydration while I exercise and feel so much better sipping coconut water throughout the day here in the desert. I add 5 more drops of Joy Juice Elixer to my water glass and walk for 30 minutes on my treadmill. I like to mist my face again with my Kari Gran Hydrating Tonic just before I step on the treadmill, it feels so refreshing.
In the Shower…
Right before I step in, I roll Tata Harper Automatic Stress all over my hands and do 8-10 slow deep breaths. The amazing combo of scents really calms me down. Then I wash my hair with Rahua Shampoo & Conditioner — the regular one. I much prefer the scent of their Volumizing shampoo & conditioner, but they make my scalp itch and dry out my hair too much. The regular Rahua combo makes me have perfect hair days so I hang in there with the scent. I know a lot of people love the Palo Santo scent, so I feel badly saying I don’t care for it, but I’m a fruity, floral or citrus gal. For body wash & shaving my legs I use John Masters Organics Bourbon Vanilla & Blood Orange body wash — it smells so fabulous. I exfoliate with an Osmia coffee & mint soap bar that I keep in the shower on their ingenious little soap saver stand. I step out of the shower and leave my skin dripping wet (as I learned from reading the Osmia blog) and slather my legs & arms with Osmia Body Oil in Sunset. I also wrap my hair up in an old t-shirt so it won’t drip down my back.
Out of the Shower…
For deodorant, I am now using and loving In Love With Body Care deodorant in unscented (I have my husband using their Morocco scent — spearmint) that I discovered thanks to the samples sent to me by the exceedingly kind Terri at Integrity Botanicals. Just upgraded to a full-size tube of it and love it so much more than my former deodorant — Nourish Organic — which worked but was scratchy feeling going on. This deodorant has coconut oil in it, so it is very creamy and feels very gentle on my skin. Love it! I mist my face with my Kari Gran rose mist again, followed by her glorious serum (side note: most normal people don’t have to apply Kari Gran mist & serum several times a day, but my skin is crazy dry with the desert air and a/c going so I do a mid-day hydration too). I brush my teeth with The Honest Company toothpaste in mint — it’s SLS & fluoride-free and the only mint toothpaste that doesn’t sting my tongue when I use it. I floss my teeth with Reach woven soft floss in mint. Now I unwrap my hair from the t-shirt and scrunch it all over with Rahua hair wax. This is a life-changing product that keeps my dry hair curly and not frizzy and has completely replaced my previous “cocktail” of multiple other products that drove me crazy.
Most days at home, I just opt for 3 things: combing my eyebrows with Jane Iredale clear brow gel, my Kjaer Weiss mascara & Osmia lip gloss in Whisper. If I’m headed into the California sunshine, I put John Masters Organics SPF 30 sunscreen all over my face & neck and top it off with RMS lip to cheek in Demure on the apples of my cheeks. I’ve read so much praise for the Josh Rosebrook SPF 30 day cream that I’ve gotten some samples and am considering the switch, the skin on my face is very dry and sensitive and the John Masters sunblock works well but tends to dry out my skin even more. I use Hurraw SPF 15 lip balm (love the tangerine/vanilla scent and it goes on clear!) then put my Osmia lip gloss over the top. On my arms & hands I slather on Erbaviva SPF 30 which smells so nice…. light lavender scent.
Throughout the Day…
Every time after washing my hands, I love putting on my Osmia Linden Rose Hand Cream (shout-out to Rebecca on NMDL for recommending) mixed with a few drops of Lotus Wei Infinite Love for a nice boost of rose and positive energy. I also try at least twice a day to take a mini-break by closing my eyes for 2 minutes and letting a Wei of Chocolate dark chocolate melt in my mouth. Heaven.
Just wanted to share that the ultimate de-stresser is taking a warm bath with Zoe Organic’s Mama’s Ritual Bath Salts. Even if you aren’t a mom, we all need to find healthy ways to relax and there is something magical in this mix that is so calming I almost pass out in the bathtub — it’s that relaxing. If I don’t have time for a bath, I agree 100% with a post on NMDL a few months ago that Susannah wrote about how the warm cloth & facial oil cleansing ritual (using Kari Gran cleansing oil) is as relaxing as a bath. The combo of the warm cloth and the lavender scent is an ultra-relaxing way to end the day. I also like rolling on Tsi-La Fleur Sauvage and breathing it in right after I finish caring for my face at bedtime. Tata Harper’s Bedtime aromatherapy and a big mug of Organic India Rose tea is a lovely way to end my day.
After writing all this out, I kinda feel like I use a lot of products (high-maintenance?) but I’ve come to learn that little bits of self-care scattered throughout the day culminates in feeling so much better and more calmer about life…
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This morning routine is all the way from Dubai. We love the mix of clean products plus the single ingredient, DIY style approach here. Be sure to add your suggestions for an eye cream in the comments!
Name: Haseena Samtani
City: Dubai, UAE
Current weather: a toasty 120 degrees daily
Skin: Was clear until my first pregnancy, now hormonal due to another pregnancy and breast feeding. Uneven and prone to hyper pigmentation post break outs. It’s medium/dark with a golden undertone and tans very easily.
Hair: long, dark and in between wavy and curly.
Starlet from the past: I always adored Lucille Ball. She was the first woman on TV that I thought was just stunning.
How my day begins…
Just before going to get my 15 month old to nurse, I crack open a fresh coconut and drink the water. If I’m lucky and there’s soft flesh, I eat that as well. I’m pregnant with my second child and during my first pregnancy I drank a coconut every day, it’s an old Indian tradition. After she’s done and while she’s playing, I’ll have a green smoothie; usually blended coconut milk, pineapple, mango, spinach or kale and a couple spoons of chia seeds. If I’m feeling hungry I’ll do a whole grain peanut butter toast or a bowl of yogurt with fruit. I also take an iron and Pre-Natal supplement at this time. This keeps me going until lunch. After that I massage my babe with organic cold pressed coconut oil and I slather it all over myself too. About a half hour before bathing I’ll rub some manuka honey on my face or just where I have a little spot.
In the Shower…
In the shower, I alternate between Dr. Bronners, Whole Truth bars (currently using Mud & Glory), or African Black Soap. I usually quickly lather up using a sea sponge. If I have time (on the weekends when the hubs is with my baby girl), I’ll rub down after soaping with a mixture of sea salt and oil (usually olive). I shampoo every few days, sometimes with baking soda mixed in a little water and sometimes with Yarok Feed Your Volume Shampoo. I’ll condition with Dessert Essence Red Raspberry Deep Conditioner. If my legs need it, I’ll run the razor over them, although I try to wax with a homemade honey based sugar about once a month.
Out of the shower…
I apply more coconut oil if my skin still is feeling dry; otherwise I skip it. I’m also trying out Butter Elixir and Intelligent Nutrients body oils, which I am loving so far! In the “winter” of Dubai, I’ll massage a little pure shea butter on my elbows and heels. It also helps nipples if you are breast-feeding and is great on diaper rash! I’ll put a few drops of rose hip seed oil on my face. I had wanted to try the Pai one but it wasn’t available in Dubai, but I did find a local brand that I love (it’s SO rare for that to happen here). It’s called Shirley Conlon Organics Rosehip Oil. I also really love the Gressa Purifying Oil, which I stock up on from the states. I’ve found it to tame my breakouts and help with pigmentation too. If I’ve washed my hair I leave it to air dry. If it needs a little refreshing then I’ll sprinkle some One Love Organics dry shampoo at the roots. This is a new find and I love it! I put some coconut oil on my under arms to as a base for the Soapwalla Deodorant Cream I apply next.
Then I do my makeup…
A quick brush of Jane Iredale Mineral Powder in Suntan (it’s been very tough to match my skin color, but this one seems to work nicely), some Vapour Aura Multi-use Stick in Torch quickly smeared on my cheeks, Indian Kajal under my eyes and I’m done. If it’s a special occasion I’ll put a little RMS Concealer under my eyes and some Alima Pure Mineral Eye Shadow in Chai under my brow bone. I love this color as it just melds with my skin. At this point I’m usually running out the door for some class or play date.
At night while putting my little love to bed, I’ll sip hot water with lemon. To remove my make up, I massage olive oil on my face. If I’m not too tired I’ll steam for a few minutes too. Or I’ll tissue off the oil to remove the makeup and apply some manuka honey for a bit while watching TV with my other love. Then either cleanse with Evan Healy Lavender Milk or One Love Organics Foaming Cleanser. I use a Clarisonic a few times a week to keep my skin clear. After I spritz with a hydrosol (Evan Healy is one of my favs) and apply Gressa Purifying Oil. A couple times a week I’ll throw some Arcona Gentle Solution on too, although I haven’t done this since becoming pregnant as I’m trying to be extra gentle with my skin. I also love masks so whenever I have time I’ll do the green tea clay one from Evan Healy, Gressa Dirty Pretty Things or make my own with a little fullers earth, turmeric and yogurt. This really makes my skin glow, just a pinch of turmeric though, otherwise you end up looking like a pumpkin!
I love products so my routine is ever evolving. Going green with my beauty has been the best decision for me. I do miss a nice eye cream. Anyone have one they love?
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